Stop waxing eloquence on being the most positive person on this planet, be the positive person from within and watch how you become more loving to yourself. You could have the best outlook in life, one with positivity and love; however, there would be pros and cons to deal with the same. Why bring out a smile when you have to be an empty glass from within? This means, you needn’t be 100 percent happy and positive at all times, be real. Love and happiness comes from within when you allow yourself to accept the pros and cons of life. Thus, here are a few tips to help love you better.
Do You Desire Yourself?
You need to have the will and the desire to love to yourself, which would ultimately make you a positive person. This happens only when you take time to look at the big picture, the life you lead and the quality it offers. You automatically would know if your aura is positive on a certain day or not, when people walk up to you because of what you give out. Random folks at work or on the street would smile at you, talk to you and patronise you too. This only can happen when the inner desire of you loving yourself comes out.
Get Real In Life:
You aren’t here to please everyone, hence no saintly attitudes to be thrown around. Positive people too have negative emotions and attributes in life to deal with. Let this not bog you down, let no failure harm your path to success, and expect less since that could also be a reason why pessimism has flown into you. Mentally be prepared to face untoward and unforeseen circumstances too.
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Don’t Be Scared:
As an observer, you should enjoy what you see is being thrown at you in life. The daily rigmarole can teach you a lot. What if you missed the bus to work this morning? Maybe life’s asking you to start out early, which means no more late nights!! This could be hostile as a step to try in the beginning, but when you notice the what, why, where, how and when’s of life, the big picture makes you brave.
Walk The Talk:
The body and speech of an individual speaks volumes about someone’s character. Make it approachable and friendly, get amused when people speak. Laugh at something which is worth it; allow others to tell you their story too. Remember, the world doesn’t revolve around you, it’s about knowing the others around
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Surround Yourself With Positive People:
One of the most important steps when loving yourself is to be in the company of those who bring out the best in you. However, don”t be dependent and addicted to them, or else you would have a grumpy group at the end to deal with. Let their pessimism if any, not touch you as much as possible. There would be a wide range of emotions to deal with, and each circle has its own pros and cons, so don’t condemn you for joining or being one with the group that ditched earlier. Live in the moment and be happy now!!
An Idle Mind Is a No-No:
Brooding and being idle can make you negative about your own image, which is why engaging in positive activities is advised. Run a marathon with friends, hold a cooking class together, have healthy sexual encounters, bubble bath and more.
Chill Out Sometimes:
We all have shocks in life to deal with, and to realise it on time is to minimize the impact. So what if the car keys got locked in, so what if the milk boiled over, things happen and you aren’t dead, so chill for the moment and find a solution rather than blaming your life
Love yourself please!
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