The first thing to understand is that lover as an emotion is a powerful force. Which no one can control, but can at their own will distribute with care and kindness. The law of attraction clearly states that your energy goes where your thoughts flow, which means you as an individual, have the power to manifest whatever it is that you want. If you to watch cozy and happy couples, and sigh, maybe it is time for you then to take a step back, breathe deep and appreciate the love in you, before expecting it from any other quarters around. What we mean by this is if you want to receive love, you have got to give out love.

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This is because the universe around responds to your wants and needs in equal measure, so if you visualize love in any form befitting your needs coming to you, it shall happen so. However, love cannot be worked upon by interfering and harming the free will of the next.

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How to Receive Love?

What you Shouldn’t Do to Gain Someone’s Love:

Love is all about respect and patience. Hence don’t do anything which would be short-lived. For example, when you take a look online. There would be many sorcerers and magicians claiming to reunite people with their exes and to rekindle old flames. Always remember, if you love someone, set them free and if it is meant to be they will come back to you.

If they don’t come back to you, it wasn’t meant to be. But that doesn’t mean you aren’t worthy of receiving romantic love. It only means that the best is yet to come, so now focus on loving yourself and preparing for that ultimate romantic journey. Free will is something that shouldn’t be messed around with. You cannot force someone to love you, no magical potions or spells are worth the try. They may work for a small time frame, but the backlash for the same is something that you don’t want to ever face, it’s horrible and disastrous.

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Love cannot be bought with money, fame, power or status in society. If someone is attracted to you for that, they surely aren’t in love with you as a person, rather, they want to be with you for your material possessions.

Take a look around, and find out who stood by you when you had nothing. Those are the true ones in your life that stood by you. The rest are just specks of sand wanting to mooch you off. So choose wisely who you want to share your love with, and make no expectations


Talking about expectations, we are human at the end of the day, and we certainly would expect someone to at least say a kind word or speak about the love we have for them.

However, that’s not receiving love. In fact, that’s an expectation you shouldn’t be making. Because if it doesn’t happen, you would be raged, cross or disappointed with the individual. Receiving love means to have it come to you as and when it can and would. It doesn’t have a specific agenda, time, place or manner, it just comes in, and when it does, you would know.

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Final Words:

Love can make Or break the situation at the moment. So ensure that you choose to live life as happily as possible. Go ahead and shower a kind act of love and leave it to that. It shall be repaid in time, and in large amounts. People tend to forget to use love for everything. But when love lashes itself at mankind, it doesn’t forget anyone in its path. Do what makes you happy, pet a dog, cuddle a cat, kiss your parents, dance alone or with someone, and that’s how you bring in more love.


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