The rules of dating are different, but there are no rules to follow. Confused? Well that’s how it is, and one shouldn’t try too hard to make an impression. If the trying too hard scene happens, one wouldn’t go next base anytime soon with the potential lover. Now when it comes to loving the person and being in a relationship with them, there are various things that need to be understood. To begin with, is he or she into you? How does one find that out? Just because the date was awesome, he kissed you or she allowed you to kiss her, it doesn’t mean that they love you. We often mistake flirting with love or maybe a couple of dates with being ready for a relationship. Below shows you all the more details about How to Start a Relationship.
Let Go Off The Coffee Table:
Remember when you first met him or her, the coffee table talk, where the two of you were in splits? Yes, it was an awesome date, and there were many more dates where the two of you hung around with one another, had fun, drove around, sat under the moon and the stars, spoke sweet nothings and more. Is this a sign that you both are into each other?
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One really doesn’t know how and when a relationship begins; blame it on the media for misguiding us. Relationships are relative, each one to his or her own. There are no set definitions or rules for a relationship per se; hence trying to define what or how a relationship begins is something which is very individualistic.
Relationships are not decided on, and there are no set formulas or scripts to follow. However, one rule which stands the test of time is to be patient. An old adage says “If your lover is yours, he or she will be with you till the end of time”. There are many such adages which can give you hints, but follow your gut instinct.
Even famous authors such as Paulo Coelho opine that we meet many and have many heart breaks, preparing us for the soulmate who comes and sweeps us off our feet. Hence, when you date and socialize, make no expectations and enjoy the healthy dating scene first.
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It is only when walk away from the coffee table where everything is so cozy, do we understand the next person very well. Before jumping into the well of love, understand that there is a difference between perception and reality, which would bare itself when time comes.
Are you willing to accept the fact that being in a relationship with him or her, he or she would have to be away from the city for a long time, sometimes months on end? Are you willing to accept the fact that his table manners aren’t as impeccable as yours? Are you willing to accept the fact that she loves splurging on high end fashion?
Do you even know his or her family well? Have you met his or her friends, family members, close ones, or even colleagues? Are you connected with your mate on social networking sites? Are you affected with the fact that his or her fan following from the opposite gender is way more than it should be? Are you okay with him or her being demanding or possessive about their needs and you?
Too Many Questions:
Once again, a relationship just doesn’t happen overnight. There are couples who date for years at end and yet wouldn’t say they are in a committed relationship. In the end, you have to be due diligent about the man or woman you would like to be with.